Monday, May 27, 2013

Mystery behind the Missing Blogger!!!!!!!!!!!!


It’s been a while since I blogged. Well, to be honest I did miss writing and looking into those comments every now and then. But, what was the reason for me to go missing this long??? It’s been close to 2 weeks now.

Life can just go about here and there when things are not in place. Ask me,”How?”

didn't know if I should start writing about the excitement of my daughter`s 2nd Birthday or to write about my depressed state due to my absconding maid or to write about my helpless situation in all these things.

Everyday life seems to be a little shaken when you realize your maid hasn't turned up for few days and that’s when you declare she`s is absconding. I will have veggie cutting, cleaning, dish washing, cooking, Mop and washing to do if I don’t have her around. I will have to make sure Anikas lunch is ready on time and make sure there is no change in her schedule. And such times definitely Anika has to be cranky and that will be one of the toughest times in the recent past.


After all these duties completely done, I put her back to sleep and realize,”Aaaaw let me take a breather and get back on my laptop to blog a little”. But, no such luck these days because I will have clothes waiting in line to be folded and kept back in their places. I have to quickly set up the whole house and start with my cleaning. Just to be well prepared for her upcoming birthday party which will be celebrated at home. Well, this went on for a while. I was only living with a hope that my maid will be back the next day. I suddenly realize that I have something’s still not done. That’s when I see there’s a pile of clothes lying in the laundry bag waiting for their turn to get washed and pressed.



To add to all these things, I see most of my plants are in a very critical state and If I don’t pay attention to that.. then I might just lose them all. Hence, the watering has to be done very quickly. With so many things around, blogging has taken a back seat as of now.



These days Anika makes it a point to get cranky mostly in the evenings if I don’t take her bicycle out for few rounds or if we don’t go and play ball with the girls in the apartment. Hence, Some time during the day is given to her bicycle rides or play with her girls downstairs.

So, you can imagine mommy`s job is just not to take care of her kids but so many things gets added into this. Lot of my free time is usually into these activities which just can’t escape.
We crib, nag, cry or even scream but there's one fact which we women just cant get away from it is,”We have loooots of work to do. It can be either at home or in the office or else where. We women are always here to take responsibilities beyond our reach.I guess we are programmed that way.”

3 comments:

  1. words beautifully laid out...there is no word called RELAX in the dictionary of a Mum :-)

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    1. Hey Thank you!!!! Very very true.. However free you are... You will always have something pending....

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  2. Very well written..Its pleasure reading your blog Madhuri!

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