We Are Human Too!!!!!!!!!!!!!

I think I have mentioned a million times by now that a woman too is reborn once she gives birth to a child. And as days go by, she transforms herself into a Mommy. Well, I can’t get enough of these lines. Its hooked into my brain that I can never get away from it.

Kids, diapers, sterilizing, feeding, bathing, training, etc etc..All these are words which can be heard in a regular basis. But, let me tell you mothers always can’t be perfect at their work. They too mess up things at times.

And what happens when mommy messes up things. See it yourself:

1.     You can’t always remember everything. You forget to go grocery shopping your next day is screwed up. You can’t think of a dish at that moment without the items you don’t have. Everything goes into a big messy state.

2.     You keep in mind to tell something important to your hubby. By the time, he calls you.. You are totally lost.

3.     You remember a thousand times that you have to buy those diapers and wipes….as usual you are sooo involved in handling so much work, you only remember that the next time you need them.

4.     You put the milk for boiling to feed your kids.. may be you just want it luke warm.. But, you are busy with something else.. The milk is boiled so much that you need extra 10mins to cool it.

5.     You put on the cooker and keep in mind that you want only 3 whistles. As usual you forget the count of the whistles and keep thinking a hundred times again and again…

6.     You keep some things so carefully because you don’t want to forget where you kept them. Unfortunately, the next time you look for it, whatsoever you can never find it.

7.     You keep in mind to discuss something really important with your hubby when he comes home, but by the time he reaches home you are just wondering what was it.

8.     You plan a million times throughout the week and just wait for the weekend. And when the weekend is here, you just don’t feel like stepping out of that door.

I used to wonder if all this is included in the pregnancy package or mothers lose their memory after the child is born. Let me know why mothers are transformed this way after the baby is born. That’s because:

1.     We can’t leave them alone even for few minutes.

2.     We can’t be harsh, rude or shout at them very often

3.     We need to make a list of activities and make sure the child is busy and engaged.

4.     Make sure their breakfast, lunch, supper, dinner everything is ready on time. Because when kids are hungry, they become cranky panky (and we know how tough it is to take care of that cranky child).

5.     You have to play with them

6.     Check if they want to pee or poo

Keeping all these in mind, it’s definitely not easy to remember. I’m not sure only if my memory is this way or other mothers around me face similar memory issues.

Going through so many different stages mentally and physically, I still feel so proud to say “Motherhood is the best gift."

 And to all the proud women out there... I say,”Cheers!!!!!!!!!!”